One Simple Rule For Acing Life
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SUMMARY - Actualized - One Simple Rule For Acing Life
Rule: Always do whats emotionally most difficult in whatever situation you are.
Do the exact opposite of what most people and you do.
Most people look for the most convenient thing. this leads to a mediocre and frustrating life.
It applies to the way you think, your mood, your goals, relationship, finances
Living a good life is counter intuitive, you have to do against what the herd, society is doing
your mind is unconsciously programmed to find emotionally security and comfort.
you are always looking for the emotional short cut
it takes study of your psychology to see that all you do applies to looking for comfort and security.
This creates a lot of problems
Before you can unwire it you have to realize, see it.
you have to realize that you cant live a good life if you are seeking comfort and security. 6:00
Culture, society, etc, is designed to feed that emotional weasel in you longing for emotional security and comfort.
you want no emotional easy life but a self ectualized life. this is the emotional hard way.
Depression, dissatisfaction comes from emotional weaseling
eg. school
emotional difficult thing is to read the text book, taking hardes classes
youtube: emotional difficult is to not click on stupid cat videos
afraid: not feed into fear with more worry, not panic
relationship: establishing clear lines of communication
loosing weight: giving up sweets and going to gym 10:00
advertisement refers to your low consciousness weasel longing for emotional easiness
arguement: considering that you are the wrong one
debate: adopting the other side
church: question all your beliefs about the church
dating: walking up to a cute girl/boy and talking with
criticism: taking criticism seriously and taking it as feedback
life in generally: sitting down and turning off mind and meditating
your emotional weasel resists that, he does not want to be bored by just sitting
presenting information: presenting the facts objectively without eggagerating
business: creating lots of value without asking for payment in return
Taking a self help program: sitting down and doing every exercise that is told
spiritual work: admit your own wishful thinking. saing that all ideas how spirituality works is bullshit, complete ficiton 17:30
life in general: questioning your culture.
managing finances: serving money for retiring
having sex: using a condom
health: getting that scary lab test done, going to the gym
business: not taking short cuts, building solid business on solid foundation
life in general: not doing what your friends and family are doing
angryness: staying mindful through that anger, not loosing yourself in it
getting power: not abusing this power
People would have incredible success, mood, relationships, health, business if they lived this principle
this is no magic pill, it is a high quality advice
Dont look for short cuts
Leo is often not able to do the emotional difficult thing too
society feeds your emotional lazy weasel
you will have piece of mind, dying happy, being happy applying this principle
if you are fed up with depression, anxiety, bad mood, bad relationship, whatever you are fed up with exercise doing the emotional most difficult
Bite the bullet, dont look for magic solutions, do the emotional labor requred, its not bad as you think it is, it feels refreshing to your spirit
Thanks Leo
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